EARNING & LEARNING

Sometimes I wonder what is the real factor that keeps us pushing after career, and why do we keep running after things that at times takes lot more than we can imagine. I was wondering why I never felt the importance of learning from college, or from the jobs in Delhi but all of a sudden why I am so excited about the things that are happening when the distance are in miles with my near and dear ones.. It may be boring or may be unfortunate that I realised these things bit later of my life however I am excited so bare with my feelings.

My experience with HBOS organisational setups helped me to grow through the implementation of my individual talents ( I still at times doubt, if I have any)
With the little experience whatsoever I have gained till date in this country, I have realised that the things that I have learnt, I would not have bothered under the normal circumstances. It happened because of the interrelated compulsion such as money factor, I was answerable to my family, friends, and it was about the justification of trust that was shown by all of my friends and family members. It is not easy to leave everything behind and move on.
I will not touch on the phase of nightmares that have passed in past one year, but unfortunately the green grass, the blue sky, the pretty faces are still much more appreciable in movies rather than in reality, which provoked me for England. However, I must also appreciate the fact, that, had I not dare to move on, I might have not experienced it, and it is indeed a valuable learning for life time, even if it does not take me to a fancy job. I still don’t have certain answers for certain well wishers when I am bombarded with questions like, what is the amount I am going to earn now. What is the benefit I have got after coming to U.K.? I wish if only I knew... hahahahaha
I agree with one of my online friend who wrote something related to psychological impact on pagalguy.com that to begin with these issues, one needs to see the way most of our children are brought up in different family values. Children are compared to each other and thats done in such a way, it drives them to believe that certain things (like power, knowledge, etc.) are things that only a lucky few have and therefore ‘you show it in your actions that you are better than others’. This is so unfair. This is like spoiling that child’s future learning patterns and inter-personal relationships.
The problem that I had, was, the right after the objective, I always had to seek the best practices to ensure that I was following the standards already set by someone else.
My blogger friend from PAGAL GUY.COM, from whom I have inspired rightly, said that there is no harm to read what had happened, but only after I have made a skeleton of what can probably be my action plan (not following best practice blindly). Learning is something that can be the music everyone wants to play in their lives.